Fearing Women

 

In the Weeks Ahead

In this age of the empowerment of women it is distressing to see the limited focus related to the issues. It should be clear that this author is clearly in support of the women’s movement. but I’m feeling the need to do more in depth exploration of matters that need to be dealt with as women become empowered.

The Threat of Women

It is impossible to look at the women’s movement without seeing the fact that it is feared. Or at least that is my perspective. Why should we fight against equality given the benefits that are offered for all of us? Once that question is asked something becomes perfectly clear. People fight the equality of other people all the time. We have class warfare, country warfare, deep prejudice against people of color and on and on. Why not against women?

In Fact

Something fundamental has changed. Among other things, women have gained control over their reproductive capacity. Or at least they are making significant gains although there is opposition there as well. Many of us are now having fewer children in a complex and changing world. These and other changes are opening doors to women having greater autonomy and possibilities.

Not So Simple

As we begin to explore the issues, the import and complexity becomes apparent. To some the complexity is reason enough to be opposed to the movement. But, in fact, in this rapidly changing world we must examine the detailing of any such changes.  The essential nature of it is apparent and the possibility of benefits are huge. But we need to understand the impact of change and what will be demanded of us.

An Essential Question 

To some of us it is apparent that women being empowered is something that is frightening to many men. Whether they want to hear it or not, it is clear that, yes, many men are afraid of empowered women. When the subject is opened, it is clear that it is not a simple matter and we are just beginning to explore what is happening and what it may mean. And when we say what it may mean we find it may mean many different things to many people. It is time to begin to explore because the consequences are rather impressive.

Why Fear?

Yes, why the fear is an essential question. First of all it will be difficult to help many men admit they are afraid. When they admit fear it may mean to them that they are admitting weakness. As soon as this component is opened other questions come cascading out along with many alternatives.

Then There is Partnership

In fact we are not just looking at empowerment or a yielding of power. We can, in fact, join together in a new glorious day. Suddenly we open further contributions and alternatives for all of us. 

The issues are complex and unexpected. Recently a study was revealed that said teens who don’t date may be less depressed. Oooops. It actually may have been unsuspected but not surprising upon examination. Beginning dating is difficult, emotionally risky and is a major learning experience.

The Bottom Line

We have substantive explorations to undertake. We may be frightened and have to deal with the unexpected but we do not have to go too deeply to see the benefits of empowerment and the acceptance of it by men can be hugely rewarding. Not the least of the benefits may be truly complex partnership. There is so much more to come and since I am among those who seek the “what if” endlessly this is a new and glorious day.

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I refer to it as a work of magical realism. It is a series with a strong mythological element and a real world setting in this time when women are being empowered at last. It is a time of wonder and awakening for all of humankind.

Gaia’s Majesty-Mission Called: Women in Power – Book 1

Avery had dedicated her life to work for the future of third world women. Her life was enhanced when she met the man who became the love of her life. They could not know that they shared a destiny and that a mission set long ago by our Earth Goddess was to be revealed before 

them. 

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Gaia’s Majesty-Challenge: The Chosen Rise – Book 2

These people, called Tethyans, live in cities in the sea but can morph into fully human form and come to land to form families. They join with the warrior women called the Andromeda to fight against the forces working to impair the future of humankind. Avery has found her birth name of Chantia and she and Beck find there is soon to be a child of seeming great import just as the world falls into terrible strife with millions already dead. 

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Health Care Alternatives and Reality – Series – Pt. 4

Our Ailing Health Care System

 

Where to Begin!

Since this is a post, not the required book, I’ll keep it short. 

We are a nation in crisis currently and not the least of the crises is our health care system. The enduring battle to reduce if not cripple government has taken its toll. We are the only developed country without an advanced health care system for all its citizens. And even what we have is under attack. Our system is inefficient and costly. Even if you are well off and well insured you immediately see problems.

And now that the government is under continuing attack we may see the collapse of small hospitals in rural areas. It would make the system even worse.

Seeing Problems First Hand

A few years ago I began to suffer mysterious and ephemeral problems and began a search for a cause. It turned out that I had Lyme Disease which had been poorly studied and is now epidemic. That was a major indicator of medical shortsightedness in itself. But then the problems became more obvious. I saw three separate physicians and each ordered a blood test (which we now know was virtually useless). When the results came in I found they were all the same tests. What a waste.

In France the public carries a data card and all results go on it. If we had such an efficient system the second physician would have had the results and there would not have been a second or third set of tests.

Floundering Over the Years

I am now considered to be a chronic Lyme Disease sufferer. It has been ten years since I believe I contracted the illness and I’m in my fourth return of the disease. This time my treatment will be more protracted. I can’t fault the medical people who have tried to help but the research has been abysmal and denial has been widespread. The stories of problems are endless.

Each of us has our own stories of problems, failures and inefficiencies. And the mental health field is no different. In a later post I’ll focus on one notable issue I became centrally involved in.

Failure on the Horizon

Many of us are looking at health care systems around us failing or on the verge of failing. As noted above, poorer, rural areas are particularly vulnerable in present circumstances. If those hospitals close, the effects will be devastating and the consequence will echo down the generations.

And currently we see areas which are very vulnerable and I saw a very specific area decades ago and it has not gotten any better. When I went to work in the impoverished area in the inner city of Baltimore our young staff learned quickly that the greater threat to “mental health” was poverty because of the depression and anxiety. But our seniors held fast to their desire for centralized systems rife with long term therapy and medications which served our people in the inner city poorly. I’ll leave it there for now. The sad tales go on and on.

But There Is Hope

Suddenly we are seeing an uprising in America. Our young are proclaiming “Enough Is Enough” and women are proclaiming “Me Too” in regard to sexual harassment and at the same time we are seeing a reenergized civil right movement. Now we can see the distinct possibility of vision and attention to the realities for our future. And health care is an essential part.

Gaia’s Majesty-Mission Called: Women in Power by Roger B. Burt

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Whatever Happened to Community Mental Health by Roger B. Burt